Sheryl Sandberg stated among the most meaningful moments since she was widowed came whenever her son encouraged her to recreate a photo alongside her second husband.
On Thursday's event of the "All There Is alongside Anderson Cooper" podcast, the erstwhile Meta COO said concerning losing her delayed husband, Dave Goldberg, in 2015. Their children were 10 and 7 at the time.
Sandberg afterward established affection again alongside Tom Bernthal, whom she wed in 2022.
During the podcast, Sandberg recounted how, on a latest trip to the Cape of Good Hope in South Africa, she established herself grieving Goldberg since it was anywhere they had taken one of her favorite honeymoon photos.
Her 21-year-old son, who had formerly told her not to remarry, urged her to obtain the identical image alongside Bernthal, saying Goldberg would have been blessed she'd established him.
"That was among the most crucial moments of my life, and it fair happened. And I desire additional group who have misplaced spouses to have that alongside their children," Sandberg told presenter Anderson Cooper.
Sandberg stated she frequently tells widows and widowers two things: that things volition get better, and that they can discover affection again if they desire to.
"Every individual benevolent of gasps, pauses, and afterward there's relief, and they say, 'Thank you for saying that. No one alternatively has.' And afterward nearly as frequently they say, 'But I don't desire to disturb my children,'" Sandberg said. "Not small kids. I'm talking concerning grown children."
She acknowledged that it can be achy for grownup children to observe a genitor date following losing a spouse.
But, she said, parents expend most of their lives caring for their kids, and grownup children "have a chance to do item for a parent" by supporting a living parent's hunt for companionship.
"I don't error the grownup children who aren't doing this. I think they fair haven't idea concerning it," Sandberg said, adding that they may not acknowledge how lonely a widowed parent can awareness formerly their children come back to their own partners and families.
"The inquiry is giving them approval to move on. Permission, and equal encouragement," she said.
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Amanda is a elder manner newsman at Business Insider's Singapore bureau.Her reporting explores how group navigate important existence transitions, including occupation changes, relocation, and retirement, alongside a particular concentration on the experiences of those living in Asia. She additionally writes concerning travel, culture, wellness, and relationships.In 2025, she won the Singapore Press Club's Rising Stars Young Digital Journalist Award.She earlier worked as a author and video manufacturer at a satisfied promotion agency in Singapore. She graduated from the University at Buffalo alongside a BA (Hons) in Sociology.
